I'm also in a wonderful relationship with a man 14 years younger then me. People should discuss these things before they get into a serious relationship. I agree that most are looking for nsa relationships. I insist on chatting with a cub before I will grant them access to my private gallery or agree to date him. Do you think starting a family is an issue for people who meet on the site? She's always thanking me. With a free membership you can browse profiles and not much else. XMatch profiles have a kink section and you can run a kink search to discover those who have similar sexual interests. If they seem only interested in naughty pictures, talking exclusively and explicitly about sex, ask to see you on camera whether or not they do the same and then ask you to remove clothing or perform a sexual act, show you explicit photos of themselves without your requesting it, chat in a manner inconsistent for their age, express excessive devotion or a desire for a commitment after just meeting, consistently express a desire to meet but then always having scheduling conflicts, I immediately become suspicious. In addition to the above-average recurring fees, the site also runs on a credit system. We met on a Facebook, actually. Well, older women know what they want and know what they're getting into.