Close friends know, but the mosque's leaders do not. We don't have any gay people in our community," Shaheen said. In your Activity Panel you can see members who have viewed your profile and marked it as a favorite. He grew up in a Muslim family in India, and all of his siblings are in arranged marriages. Write me, if you are a gay boy! A group sits cross legged on the floor of the living room, singing and strumming sitars. Singular opinions These two sides, self-appointed "leaders" and "celebrities", are both out-to-lunch and have no business issuing such fatwas beyond their own singular opinion on the matter and speak for nothing and no one beyond themselves. Pretty soon, inhibitions are gone, the music is rocking, and the South Asian gays are dancing and laughing. What is Your Age My age is: This applies to all closeted married homosexual men in Indonesia, irrespective of their religions and beliefs. Abdala has good reason to worry. When they age, they become abusers themselves.