If you're a woman before you understand what men really want in bed you need to understand something else too which is very significant and can't be ignored. This small stretch of flesh between the anus and the testicles is an exalted but often neglected place. Couples don't ask for what they want because they're afraid they won't get it. Smile and lick your lips. Grabbing a blindfold or wrapping a tie around his eyes can heighten his senses for some pretty explosives results. Cowgirl Position "Cowgirl is better than reverse cowgirl and doggy because parts of her body bounce, I can touch and feel every part of her body, and I get to see her face and her reactions. I hope you're getting my point and it's making sense to you and even if it's not it will start making in a while just continue reading. My wife seems to feel less self conscious about getting oral when I'm down on her at the same time, so she really lets loose and reciprocates by deep throating and going harder sucking at my penis. Build sensations slowly; keep yourself near the verge for as long as you can. Sex On the Couch "I like it when she straddles my penis as I'm sitting in a chair or on the couch. They'll prevent internal skin tears and, frankly, make the whole transaction easier for you. They crave the smell and taste of an aroused woman, unadorned.