Women's bodies change as they get older—no matter how much yoga or liposuction they can afford. People have to be sexually literate and since people live longer today, it's particularly important for all of us to educate, to say that you are going to live until 70 or 80 or Single men can learn to cook something new so he can make dinner for his date, once he meets her, that is! Because that's the way it goes, because men die earlier than we women and to those women, I say look, I don't have a silver platter to provide you with a lover. By pursuing activities that interest them. At some point in their lives, about 20 percent of women experience painful intercourse, a condition called dyspareunia. The exact mechanism for this predicted demise wasn't always clear, but physicians of that era did believe it was dangerous for older women to even think about sexual activity because erotic thoughts might, among other evils, evoke regrets for lost allure and those regrets could trigger disease. But now our role models are women like the experienced stars of "Sex and the City," who are set to film yet another sequel featuring numerous scenes of Kim Cattrall 52 , Sarah Jessica Parker and Kristin Davis both 44 and Cynthia Nixon 43 enjoying their time beneath the sheets. Second, there was a big exception to the first conclusion. Well if a woman relies on that stimulation of a vibrator and if she knows she can't climax, then she has a problem that she can solve.