I was furious at him for being such a jerk, but at least I knew that any sexual encounter I had after that would be lightyears better by comparison. I've never had any real regrets about the person I experienced it with or how it went down. If you're old enough to be sexually active, you're old enough to squash Paddington Bear to the back of your closet, Winnie The Pooh under the bed, and your collection of American Girl dolls in the garbage bin. Thirty seconds after it was over, he got up, got dressed, and left. When we finally got to college, we spent hours hooking up every day. I was expecting it to be so nice and amazing, but instead it was so painful. So we lit candles and took it slow. For Pete's sake, don't cry. After a comedy show in NYC and dinner we came back to my place. So after a few months of dating, I planned a specific night for us where 'it' was going to happen. In the next weeks I learned that our culture obsesses about making the first time perfect, but chances are that the second, third, fourth, etc. My boyfriend at the time and I had been together for about eight months and things were getting serious, so we decided to do it.
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I was so happy to be making love with him.
I asked a year after and she said it was because she had been molested as a kid and she wanted my first sexual experience to be positive. And nothing ruins a good time like a below-the-belt itch or unplanned pregnancy.
You know how almost every woman you know thinks she's fat?
It was during my freshman year of college with an upperclassman frat bro.
We made out after an orientation party, then kept in touch through thousands of flirty texts all summer long.
I was 17 and I just wanted to get it over with.
Maybe you'd think that, but you'd be wrong. At the time, I felt amazing.
I had no pain, and it just felt right.
After a month of dating we decided to lose our virginities to each other.
It wasn't a big deal in my mind, as I'd lose it one day anyway, so why not then?